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Interview Data

R How old are you?
N  I am 26 years old

R Where did you grow up?
N  I was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY

R What kind of cell phones have you had?

N um my first phone was a nextel, and thorugh the years ive had about 6 or 7 different ones, i currently have the i phone 4

R Do you like the i phone?
N I think its a wonderful , its touch,  and it works well

R Do you think youll upgrade to i phone 5?
N (laughs) If i can afford it

R ok. is texting a large part of everyday life?
N Absolutely i spend most of my texting, during work, im always on the go
 R How long have you had a cell phone?
N my first phone when i was 15, about 11 years now

R when you first got your phone was texting a large part?
 N No when growing up i was only allowed to use my phone for emergencies  so i started texting aroud 17, everyone got a  phone it was so cool

R do you always your phone or disconnect from the world?
N i am constantly on my phone, games apps, dont think ive shut my phone off unless i was at a funeral ( laughs) its real hard
R yes same here, batteies is always dead

R how many texts do you send per day about
N umm i guess about 50 -60, talk to my bf best friend , co workers, so about 50 -60

R do you think more at night or during the day, or is it about the same?
N um probaly during the day, usually quick text here or there constanly on my break.so mostly all day

R what cell phone services have you had?
N Verizon, they are pretty good, service is amazing been with them forever
R  now they are changing something with text messgaing
N yea no unlimited so that's gonna be a mess(laughing)

 What is the best phone for text messaging?
um personally i like the i phone or any touch phone, key board is there, you slide your finger and you get a sentence

R Um best phone serive for texting'?
N again verizon, just  from what I know, never had t mobile

R what texting plan do you have? if you know
N i have the unlimited texting, right now, with verizon changing dont know if i can adjust, go over limit

R how much is your monthly bill
N actually have family share plan with 3 phones so about 210. unlimited ,internet for all 3

R What type of charges do you get if you go over?
N well actually before i had unlimited i had only 4200 a month and i would go over i think it was $1.49 per text which is pretty expensive its a lot it adds up

R You take the bus to work?
N yea about a 2 hour ride so i text on the way to kill time,
R do you feel you word things in a particular way when you text?
N um i think everyone does you texting friends or family you can goofy you dont have to watch what you say, relaxed calm, co worker, boss you have to watch what you say, im sarcastic so sometimes i say something and ill offend them and not realize
R esp  cause its just words no visual
n of course 

 R how long have you been texting with friends and family?
N um like i said since i was 17-18, last years of high shcool into college thats when i was texting the most

R anyone you text the most?
n  i usually text my bf alot all day and my sister its easier way to say hey whats going on, better then picking up the phone, cant text my parents, very old fashion
R hopefully in the new year you can text them

R so next question any one you do not text?
N my parents, very old fashion,cant even get them to order a movie on the tv,

R any firends you feel you have to call or prefer a call?
N i have to say i text everyone,  my aunt is another who doesn't grasp it, shell try you get a few words  but call her anyhways

R do you feel texting affects your family esp your parents, missing out?
N of course my dad esocially, hes deaf, always asking to please show me how to text, its horrible i wanna show him, its letter by letter sometimes he gets it, great way to communicate with him

R  What do you like better about texting verses face to face talk?
N  um i feel textng is much easier faster way to communicate on a day to day basic , making plans, you dont have to worry about calling and them not picking up the phone, so much easier

R Have you ever had your words twisted or taken the wrong way in a test message
N yes things get twisted for instance me and my sister were ,making plans through text agreed on date and time said lets meet at this restaurant, set time and place, ended up meeting in two different cites, she was in freehold i was in old bridge.



R who is affected by your texting the most?
N umm i would say my boyfriend, i text him a lot we have hectic work schedules, so its the only time we get to talk, i have desk job so i can always answer him, his job he cant.


R have any of your personal relationships been affected by a particular text?
N yes um this one time my boyfriend and i were talking about the holidays, i said we should be just him and i, because i have issues with his family, and his reply through text was its Christmas and its my family so if you love me you'll come, i replied and said i hate you and your family, had a great big argument and we spent the holiday alone,



R Do you feel a face to face conversation would have changed this situation?
N def if we would have just sat there and talked, said lets start our own tradition, could have spent the holidays together, i could have seen his body language he could have seen me crying, tone in his voice, it affects the relationship


R Have you ever texted to avois face to face confrontation?
N one of my co workers he has a very unique personality kinda cant say stuff face to face so i send a text, he gets but if it says to his face he says i have a nasty tone , he responds in a positive way.

R Do you feel text messaging is too readily available?
N of course with this new technology, you just swipe your finger and in two seconds you are communicating with people all over the world.  you kinda hide behind your text messages, you cant hear their voice


R Do feel text messaging can be addicting?
N um in certain circumstances, depends who your texting, boyfriend all day long, friends here and there, some people get too caught up, not sure if its an addiction or obsession, kinda like your favorite show, you always have to watch it, you back off on texting your bf if hes out with friends


R Do you feel your tone changes when texting friends verses co-workers?
N yea again going back to before you have to watch what you say your in a work environment, you have to watch the way you words things may get offended


R Do you keep in touch with old friends/family through texting?
N um i def keep in touch with friends form high school, occasional text, they are busy so its easier. in regards to family just holidays, family in Italy so im close with my cousins there so we text, they have children, they send pictures through messages

R Do you feel texting gives a type of confort when you are away from friends/family?
N of course you like we said before you can see them as much as you want, sometimes its nice to stop for a second and you see a message from them and it warms your heart


R Do you think texting promotes or puts a strain on relationships?
N um you know when you spend all day texting your bf instead of just seeing them it can def put a strain, things get lost in translation, you need to be bale to see them touch them, see when they are upset, you need that physical connection. they can say something and you can be hurt by it, but they don't know how it makes u feel


R Do you feel like you are constantly checking your phone for a text message?
N umm yes. again always on my phone, text messages all day, friend sister brother bf, look at it a hundred times a day,


R Do you feel it is appropriate to have an argument through a text message?
N you know if you are going to let that happen, just pick up the phone and or talk to me face to face, i feel a lot of people hide begin a text, i want to hear your tone, pick up the phoneme and lets go have it put . if they get mad through a text they may just stop talking, rather then face to face you have to talk to me


R Does the lack of response from someone through text bother you? 
N absolutely esp when you are texting back and froth to someone and they don't answer, what happen did they fall off the face of the earth, or serious question all they say is i don't know or just "k" don't use it, its not a word, babe i love, and he says me too, really just use the extra letters and say i love you.


R is it appropriate to break up with someone via text?
 N no way, not acceptable  only person that would do that is someone who nerve cared about you, i don't care if he cheated or you cheated, be an adult face to face look at me in the eyes, same with me im not feeling it whatever the case is face to face its rude disrespectful and inconsiderate.

R Do you ever receive unwanted texts form a significant other while out with friends? 
N no um when im with my friends my bf respects that, just says have fun, when i get home ill text him but mostly text him just goodnight, so if hes sleeping he will get it in the morning you have to trust them, go out with your boys have fun, don't wanna be that girl always textiug


R Do you feel you send unwanted text to your significant other when they are out with friends?
N no we respect each other times, never had issue like that


R Is it wrong to text the opposite sex when in a relationship?
N um it depends i have guy friends ill talk to once in  while my boyfriend texts girls from work, occasional here and there is ok, but if you notice its  happening a lot, its fishy stop and think no this isn't gonna happen , and talk about it, other person mat take it the wrong way


R can texting help someone in a new relationship?
N i guess when you first start dating, can help keep things casual good start, and communicating. but when its get deeper you need to hear them rather then just text

R What are some tings that annoy you about texting?
N ugh i hate when i get a text with a bunch of slang, are you really that lazy you cant type it out like LMFAO ROFL, you cant forget the English vocab


R Do you feel texting is more prevalent among makes or females?
N umm i definitely think it goes both ways, guys text as much as girls depends on the person, sometimes guys can be just as needs as girls, they can send a lot of texts, girls want attention guys may want something else


R What is an appropriate age to start texting?
N um i hate these little teeny boppers who text, they text a bunch of nothing they wanna act like big people, i guess 15 or 16 they can start


R Do you think texting helps with social skills?
N of course you know again when you start texting someone as friends or you jest met helps you come out of your shell, think of what you wanna say before you say it helps them be funny being out a persons good and bad , you can compare that person in person compared ot text. good warm up, well leave it at that

R Do you find yourself using "slang"words now more due to texting?
N no im a fan of dictionary words, i hate lol and k, def use my words when i want  to text someone . i think they appear to be just lazy . don't mind smiley faces, the acronyms bother me, instead of the they use DA

R Can you see your life without text messaging?
N wow no and that's horrible that im saying that but looking back on growing u and how my parents grow up, i guess we are going with the times of technology, its a new way to communicate but we forget there was a time when texting did not exist. im so busy so yes texting is si easier to do, cant picture my life with out it . i can communate with family i do not get to see so its a great way to keep in touch with them


Wrap up

N texting in relationship is great you can communicate, talk during the day and its awesome, keep in touch sense of comfort, text that says good morning sweetheart, as long as you dont get into arguments, if you are then call someone, it can put a strain on it, too  much of a good thing is bad for you. my boyfriend hates talking on the phone, so ill text him instead sometimes, Going with the times, its hard when you are in a relationship and  there are trust issues, you see him texting your mind takes over and now you are wondering who hes texting, he goes to the bathroom, you are tempted to look at his phone, or he wants to check mine.
i have nothing to hide, he is always trying to hide things, i know he is texting a girl from work but its just casual talk, if it was more it would start a war, im a jealous  person, sometimes your mind wonders.


R well thank you for your input, very informative
N Thank you this has been great!